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		<title>No Wonder Kids Can&#8217;t Read</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 31 Jul 2011 18:30:12 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Magnus has been battling bug after bug this is month.&#160; We have been out and about a lot since the July 4th weekend &#038; he has paid the price.</p> <p>First we got the pleasure of rotavirus.&#160;&#160; Nothing like a week for the nastiest, poopiest diapers to make me wish I could let Magnus run bare [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[	<p><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic -->Magnus has been battling bug after bug this is month.&#160; We have been out and about a lot since the July 4th weekend & he has paid the price.</p>

	<p>First we got the pleasure of rotavirus.&#160;&#160; Nothing like a week for the nastiest, poopiest diapers to make me wish I could let Magnus run bare through the yard all day & hose him off at night.&#160; Just as the rotavirus disappeared we saw a runny nose start. This lasted a couple days; then appeared to go away.&#160; Unfortunately it came back with a vengence&#8230; Runny nose, cough and general crankiness has ensued.&#160; In the meantime a new tooth has appeared.</p>

	<p>After a couple days where Magnus appeared to be getting better,&#160; the goopy eye appeared.&#160; I gave it a couple days but there was no improvement so today began with a trip to acute care.</p>

	<p>Magnus is a trooper and was so good with all the stethoscopes & ear probes that he more than earned a special treat.&#160; We decided that some alphabet blocks would be perfect.&#160; Magnus loves anything that can be stacked (and then knocked over) plus we already like to practice singing our alphabet&#8230;.&#160; Well I sing,&#160; Magnus just bobs along with the music.&#160; Still there is no such thing as starting too early (provided there isn&#8217;t crazy pressure to be a wunderkind).</p>

	<p>Anyway, we purchased the blocks & as I prepared to open them I took a closer look at the description on the packaging.&#160; Imagine my surprise when I realized there are only 20 letters in the set.</p>

	<p><a href="http://nil17.com/2011/07/no-wonder-kids-cant-read/wpid-imag0722-jpg-2/" rel="attachment wp-att-1965"><img class="aligncenter size-medium wp-image-1965" title="wpid-IMAG0722.jpg" src="http://nil17.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/07/wpid-IMAG07221-300x179.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="179" /></a>That&#8217;s right folks, apparently nobody is smart enough to figure out how to squeeze in the last 6 letters of the alphabet. &#160;That means after &#8220;T&#8221; your kids are plain out of luck when using this nifty little alphabet blocks set. &#160;Seriously, I don&#8217;t see how there isn&#8217;t some sort of disclaimer on the package. &#160;At the very least it should say: &#8220;Warning: Partial alphabet, not really good for learning.&#8221; &#160;I can&#8217;t even use these blocks to spell my kid&#8217;s name! &#160;Not only am I missing a letter from his first name but I can&#8217;t spell his middle name either because there&#8217;s a letter missing from that as well. &#160;Good grief!</p>

	<p>After opening the package I was confronted by the following&#8230;</p>

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	<p>Can you spot the problem with this <span style="text-decoration: underline;"><strong><em>partial</em></strong></span> alphabet? &#160;It&#8217;s bad enough that they can&#8217;t manage to get all 26 letters of our alphabet into a single set (I wonder where the letters U-Z end up? &#160;Isn&#8217;t this discrimination?? &#160;I&#8217;m writing my congresspersons&#8230;certainly this is racisim. &#160;I mean how dare these toy people leave out U, V, W, X, Y & Z?? &#160;It&#8217;s ridiculous! Who is to say that the other letters are more important & worthy than the final 6 letter?? &#160;Hey we can even hold a rally & chant. &#160;&#8221;Free the Final 6&#8221; or &#8220;We want the Final 6&#8221;). &#160;Apparently the person (or machine) that places all these blocks isn&#8217;t smart enough to know that &#8220;M&#8221; comes before &#8220;N&#8221; & that &#8220;Q&#8221; is facing the wrong way. &#160;Certainly if all the blocks were random I wouldn&#8217;t deign to comment, but since every letter but two are in the proper order & direction (not to mention the sudden breaking of the color pattern) why not get them all the right way? &#160;Seems silly to disrespect &#8220;Q&#8221; by removing it from it&#8217;s proper place & directional orientation. &#160;Of course maybe the goal was to send a subliminal message to all children playing with this set of blocks&#8230; I mean if you look carefully at the bottom row it clearly states that &#8220;Mrs&#8221; is the goal of life. &#160; Either to become one or to have one. &#160;Certainly no toy manufacturer really thinks they can coerce our children into such traditional roles. &#160;That&#8217;s ridiculous & frankly insulting&#8230; I mean, seriously, the gender typified role of being a married woman is archaic at best?!? (For those of you just joining in: I am a stay-at-home, married mother of two.)</p>

	<p>Maybe this is all just so much tempest in a teapot? &#160;Could it be that I&#8217;m jumping to wild conclusions based on nothing more than conjecture, crazy theories & a desire to find scandal where none exists?? &#160;Surely it isn&#8217;t that&#8230;</p>

	<p>On a serious note though: I do wish that all the letters were included. It is a rather half-assed thing to present the alphabet missing any of the letters. &#160;My son is just a year old, where else on his path to learning will I find gaping holes in the fundamentals that he should be learning?</p>

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		<title>The Death of Critical Thinking</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 06 Jan 2011 05:43:10 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I have a deep love of books &#38; as a self-described English geek I take pride in my love of much classic literature.  I remember vividly the first time I read Shakespeare&#8217;s plays &#38; the first time I fell under the spell of Scarlett O&#8217;Hara &#38; her beloved Tara.  I was 10 maybe 11 years old [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic -->I have a deep love of books &amp; as a self-described English geek I take pride in my love of much classic literature.  I remember vividly the first time I read Shakespeare&#8217;s plays &amp; the first time I fell under the spell of Scarlett O&#8217;Hara &amp; her beloved Tara.  I was 10 maybe 11 years old &amp; while my classmates were checking out Nancy Drew &amp; Hardy Boys mysteries (not that there&#8217;s anything wrong with them&#8230;I&#8217;ve read my share &amp; enjoyed them too) I was lugging giant books home to pour over late into the night.  I also clearly recall sitting in class in elementary school and listening to the teacher read a chapter of a book aloud every day.  The first time I became acquainted with Mark Twain was when I sat, transported, as the teacher read <em>Tom Sawyer</em> &amp; then <em>The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn</em>.  It was magical.</p>
<p>Recently it was announced that a new edition of Mark Twain&#8217;s <em>The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn</em> going to be <a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/books/2011/jan/05/huckleberry-finn-edition-censors-n-word">released</a>.  The reasoning for the new edition is the use of the n-word throughout the text.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><em>The word occurs more than 200 times in Huckleberry Finn, first published in 1884, and its 1876 precursor, The Adventures of Tom Sawyer, which tell the story of the boys&#8217; adventures along the Mississippi river in the mid-19th century. In the new edition, the word will be replaced in each instance by &#8220;slave&#8221;. The word &#8220;injun&#8221; will also be replaced in the text.</em></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><em> </em><em>The new edition&#8217;s Alabama-based publisher, <a title="NewSouth books" href="http://www.newsouthbooks.com/">NewSouth books</a>, says the development is a &#8220;bold move compassionately advocated&#8221; by the book&#8217;s editor, Twain scholar Dr Alan Gribben of Auburn University, Montgomery. It will have the effect, the publisher claims, of replacing &#8220;two hurtful epithets&#8221; in order to &#8220;counter the &#8216;pre-emptive <a title="More from guardian.co.uk on Censorship" href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/censorship">censorship</a>&#8216; that Dr Gribben observes has caused these important works of literature to fall off curriculum lists worldwide.&#8221; <a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/books/2011/jan/05/huckleberry-finn-edition-censors-n-word">¹</a></em></p>
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<p>Surely Mark Twain is going to spend years haunting the people who approved this.  Writers (at least the really good ones) choose words for a reason.  They use words to evoke a sense of place, to provoke the reader into the mindset that will carry the individual deep into the text.  Twain&#8217;s use of the n-word was very deliberate; part of his social commentary on the era in which the use of such language was prevalent.  That word today is verboten, as it should be, in common speech.  However, to remove it from a text such as Twain&#8217;s <em>Huckleberry Finn</em> or <em>Tom Sawyer</em> is not only censorship but also a revisionist version of history.</p>
<p>Our society is so consumed with avoiding the possibility of offending others that we have tossed common sense &amp; critical thinking out with our unrecycled styrofoam.  How can we learn from our history if we are so busy snipping, patching &amp; denying what happened?  Yes there was a time where people used racial slurs on a regular basis&#8230;it is a sad part of our past.  We cannot pretend it didn&#8217;t happen&#8211;doing that not only rewrites the past but it also negates the work done by civil rights activists.</p>
<p>When I was learning about these stories in elementary school we discussed the mentality of the times, the language, customs etc. We were taught why the racial slurs were unacceptable&#8230;not just in school but at home too.  Now we treat our children like mushrooms&#8230;keep them in the dark &amp; feed them a fine line of crap.  Rather than use Huck Finn as a discussion tool we sanitize it to make sure nobody is offended.  Our educational system should be the finest in the world.  Instead we are rewriting history, smoothing over the ugly parts of classic literature and generally removing the process of critical thinking from learning.  We are creating children who accept whatever they are told.  There isn&#8217;t any reason for them to examine what is right &amp; wrong (or socially acceptable&#8211;think Golden Rule).</p>
<p>Sanitized literature (and history) does no favors for anybody.  It keeps us from learning, from repeating the mistakes of past generations&#8230;as Satayana famously said, &#8220;Those who cannot remember the past are doomed to repeat it&#8221;.  I shudder to think what we are dooming our children to repeat by not remembering &amp; teaching our unvarnished past.
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		<title>Thanksgiving &amp; Being Grateful</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Dec 2009 04:00:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So I&#8217;m going to pull out my English geek for this post &#38; put her on full display.  I&#8217;ve been thinking about Thanksgiving (like everybody else in the US) &#38; how at this time of year we focus on being thankful.  I am thankful for a great many things in spite of the very hard [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetTop Automatic --><div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">So I&#8217;m going to pull out my English geek for this post &amp; put her on full display.  I&#8217;ve been thinking about Thanksgiving (like everybody else in the US) &amp; how at this time of year we focus on being thankful.  I am thankful for a great many things in spite of the very hard year we&#8217;ve had.  However, I was talking to the divine <a title="Ms. Davis" href="http://have-to-find-my-sanity-somewhere.blogspot.com/">Ms. Davis</a> &amp; she said not only was she thankful for me (wow, I like that people feel that way about me) but also grateful.  It made me think about the two words &amp; how they seem to be very similar.  So I fired up my google &amp; checked Merriam-Webster online for the &#8220;official&#8221; definitons.  What I found gave me reason to do some serious thinking&#8230;.</span></div>
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<div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">Main Entry: <strong>grate·ful</strong></span></div>
<div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">Pronunciation: \?gr?t-f?l\</span></div>
<div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">Function: <em>adjective</em></span></div>
<div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">Etymology: obsolete <em>grate</em> pleasing, thankful, from Latin <em>gratus</em> — more at </span><a href="http://nil17.com/wp-admin/grace"><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">grace</span></a></div>
<div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">Date: 1552
<strong>1 a</strong> <strong>:</strong> appreciative of benefits received <strong>b</strong> <strong>:</strong> expressing gratitude &lt;grateful thanks&gt;
<strong>2 a</strong> <strong>:</strong> affording pleasure or contentment <strong>:</strong> </span><a href="http://nil17.com/wp-admin/pleasing"><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">pleasing</span></a><span style="color: #7f8cc7;"> <strong>b</strong> <strong>:</strong> pleasing by reason of comfort supplied or discomfort alleviated</span></div></blockquote>
<blockquote>
<div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">Main Entry: <strong>thank·ful</strong></span></div>
<div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">Pronunciation: \?tha?k-f?l\</span></div>
<div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">Function: <em>adjective</em></span></div>
<div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">Date: before 12th century
<strong>1</strong> <strong>:</strong> conscious of benefit received &lt;for what we are about to receive make us truly thankful&gt;
<strong>2</strong> <strong>:</strong> expressive of thanks &lt;thankful service&gt;
<strong>3</strong> <strong>:</strong> well pleased <strong>:</strong> </span><a href="http://nil17.com/wp-admin/glad"><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">glad</span></a><span style="color: #7f8cc7;"> &lt;was thankful that it didn&#8217;t rain&gt;</span></div></blockquote>
<span style="color: #7f8cc7;">I&#8217;m going with definition 1 in each case.  The first thing that struck me was the way benefits are recognized.  In being grateful there is an appreciation of benefits received while with thankful there is conciousness of benefits received.  That difference pulled me up short.  So many times people say they are thankful for their family, job, house, food etc. (there are always things for which to be thankful) but how many people are grateful for these same things?</span>

<span style="color: #7f8cc7;">Being grateful means that you appreciate the benefits &amp; not just merely recognize that they exist (thankful).</span>
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<div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">Main Entry: <strong>ap·pre·ci·ate</strong> </span></div>
<div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">Pronunciation: \?-?pr?-sh?-??t, -?pri- <em>also</em> -?pr?-s?-\</span></div>
<div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">Function: <em>verb</em></span></div>
<div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">Inflected Form(s): <strong>ap·pre·ci·at·ed</strong>; <strong>ap·pre·ci·at·ing</strong></span></div>
<div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">Etymology: Late Latin <em>appretiatus,</em> past participle of <em>appretiare,</em> from Latin <em>ad-</em> + <em>pretium</em> price — more at </span><a href="http://nil17.com/wp-admin/price"><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">price</span></a></div>
<div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">Date: 1655
<em>transitive verb</em> <strong>1 a</strong> <strong>:</strong> to grasp the nature, worth, quality, or significance of &lt;appreciate the difference between right and wrong&gt; <strong>b</strong> <strong>:</strong> to value or admire highly &lt;appreciate<em>s</em> our work&gt; <strong>c</strong> <strong>:</strong> to judge with heightened perception or understanding <strong>:</strong> be fully aware of &lt;must see it to appreciate it&gt; <strong>d</strong> <strong>:</strong> to recognize with gratitude &lt;certainly appreciate<em>s</em> your kindness&gt;
<strong>2</strong> <strong>:</strong> to increase the value of</span></div>
<div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;"><strong>synonyms</strong> </span><a href="http://nil17.com/wp-admin/appreciate"><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">appreciate</span></a><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">, </span><a href="http://nil17.com/wp-admin/value"><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">value</span></a><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">, </span><a href="http://nil17.com/wp-admin/prize"><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">prize</span></a><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">, </span><a href="http://nil17.com/wp-admin/treasure"><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">treasure</span></a><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">, </span><a href="http://nil17.com/wp-admin/cherish"><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">cherish</span></a><span style="color: #7f8cc7;"> mean to hold in high estimation. </span><a href="http://nil17.com/wp-admin/appreciate"><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">appreciate</span></a><span style="color: #7f8cc7;"> often connotes sufficient understanding to enjoy or admire a thing&#8217;s excellence &lt;<em>appreciates</em> fine wine&gt;. </span><a href="http://nil17.com/wp-admin/value"><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">value</span></a><span style="color: #7f8cc7;"> implies rating a thing highly for its intrinsic worth &lt;<em>values</em> our friendship&gt;. </span><a href="http://nil17.com/wp-admin/prize"><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">prize</span></a><span style="color: #7f8cc7;"> implies taking a deep pride in something one possesses &lt;Americans <em>prize</em> their freedom&gt;. </span><a href="http://nil17.com/wp-admin/treasure"><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">treasure</span></a><span style="color: #7f8cc7;"> emphasizes jealously safeguarding something considered precious &lt;a <em>treasured</em> memento&gt;. </span><a href="http://nil17.com/wp-admin/cherish"><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">cherish</span></a><span style="color: #7f8cc7;"> implies a special love and care for something &lt;<em>cherishes</em> her children above all&gt;. </span></div></blockquote>
<div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">Now I suppose you are wondering exactly what my point in all this is&#8230;after all thankful &amp; grateful are tied together pretty closely.  Well mostly my point is that while I have certainly been conscious of the benefits in my life I haven&#8217;t necessarily been terribly appreciative.  After all I&#8217;m certainly thankful for my family, friends, house etc etc etc&#8230;but I have failed (sometimes miserably) in expressing that attitude. </span></div>
<div><span style="color: #7f8cc7;">I&#8217;m not being critical of myself like I tend to be normally when I have fallen short of a mark (whether it is one of my own making or not) although I am adding it to my list of things to be more aware of doing in the future.  With the horror of 2009 coming to a close &amp; the big big changes of 2010 speeding toward me I am grateful, thankful &amp; blessed for my life, my husband &amp; my dear friends who are close in spirit if not actual distance.  Please remember to be active in showing your thankfulness not only now but also every day of the year.</span></div><div class="shr-publisher-1072"></div><!-- Start Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic --><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><div class='shareaholic-like-buttonset' style='float:right;height:60px;'><a class='shareaholic-googleplusone' data-shr_size='tall' data-shr_count='true' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Fnil17.com%2F2009%2F11%2Fthanksgiving-being-grateful%2F' data-shr_title='Thanksgiving+%26+Being+Grateful'></a><a class='shareaholic-fblike' data-shr_layout='box_count' data-shr_showfaces='false' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Fnil17.com%2F2009%2F11%2Fthanksgiving-being-grateful%2F' data-shr_title='Thanksgiving+%26+Being+Grateful'></a><a class='shareaholic-fbsend' data-shr_href='http%3A%2F%2Fnil17.com%2F2009%2F11%2Fthanksgiving-being-grateful%2F'></a></div><div style="clear: both; min-height: 1px; height: 3px; width: 100%;"></div><!-- End Shareaholic LikeButtonSetBottom Automatic -->]]></content:encoded>
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